Find out if you are stressed
The first step to make yourself stress-free is identifying it. Do you,
- feel tired?
- ache all over?
- cry and feel sad?
- have panic attacks?
- have disturbed sleep?
- suffer from stomach upsets?
- have itchy skin rashes?
-
get colds and flu?
Change the way you talk to yourself
When
you feel the signs above you need to first change the way you talk to yourself i.e.
Self talk. Self talk is what you keep saying to yourself in your mind. Replace
your negative ones to the positive ones.
Negative self talk
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Positive self talk
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Oh my god! there’s so
much to finish. I think I’m going to fail. I won’t remember anything.
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I can do this. I have given exams before.
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I think i am going to sink. I cant cope.
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This is anxiety. This will pass. I can feel
better.
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This is terrible. I hate this subject. Why do I
have to study it?!?!
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This is a temporary phase. Exams will be over
soon.
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I am useless. I should have studied earlier.
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Now I have time in my hands. I am going to focus
and finish what I can.
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My friends are going to fun of me.
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I have to focus on what I know and ignore what
others think of me.
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Organize
Getting what you want when you want is the key to keeping stress at bay. Keep
your entire syllabus in place and sort them out content by importance. Begin with what
is relevant and important and so on.
Develop a strong support system
Those closest to you can help you when you need it the most. Rely on your parents, teachers and close friends to help you
in doubt.
Use a Personal Mantra
A personal mantra can be anything that helps you cope with the stress. Your personal mantra could be anything from "Keep going", "Aum", "Everything is okay", "Exams are cool" to the every popular "All is well".
Distract yourself
Play
Mental games such as making words out of another word or title or using
alphabetical lists, or other such games to stimulate your brain. These are all good forms of distraction.
Feed your Brain
Eat healthy foods like nuts, fruits, vegetables, fish,
cereal to stay alert. Keep away from caffeine and avoid heavy foods as it slows
down liver functions and makes you sluggish.
Power nap
A power nap is when you take a quick 5-15 minute nap to feel refreshed. Sleep has proven
to help with reducing anxiety levels and produce better recall of information.
An all nighter will simply exhaust you.
Sing a tune
Hum
your favorite tune to see anxiety levels dip low.
Take a break
A ten minute break every hour, helps you keep calm and study
better. Studying for hours at a stretch tires the brain.
Exercise
Physical exercise is as important as mental exercise while preparing for your exams. Get some fresh air. Go for a 30 minute stroll or swim, cycle or play.
Say NO
Setting your priorities is important. Pick
and choose your where you go, who you hangout with and what you do during exams. Say no if it’s not important.
Seek professional support
Exams
are important but not more than your life. Talk to our counselor if it gets
overwhelming.
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